We C You 02: How To Talk About Curly-Coily Hair
Listen, we’re big on expression at K18 if you couldn’t tell, and we know expression comes in all forms. How you wear your hair, how you talk, the songs you like to sing in the shower. So today we’re talking the language around hair and how the right words can lead to more empowering expression. Believe it or not, some of the terms you’ve been using to describe curly-coily hair may be outdated or even offensive.
But don’t stress! We tapped our curly–coily expert + K18 Pro Educator, Alifia to deep dive into talking hair.
Read MoreWords run deep. Not just in what you say but how you say it. Whether you’re talking about your own hair or complimenting someone else’s, the right word choice can mean speaking and instilling confidence, love, and acceptance.
When we use certain words or labels without intention, knowledge, or empathy, they can sting.
As someone who has curly–coily hair, I know that sometimes these words can stick with a person through their whole life! Little girls and boys that didn’t like their curly hair because it was called wild and unruly, grow up to be women and men that endure their hair being labeled unkempt and unprofessional. They live their whole lives believing something is wrong with their hair.
As a professional, it has been my personal intention to speak pride into curly–coily hair whenever possible with the language I use when educating and speaking to different hair types.
All hair is beautiful and deserves to be appreciated and celebrated however we choose to rock it. Below you’ll find a guide of some words with a negative connotation or complex history around them along with some words that are empowering alternatives when you’re looking for the right thing to say.
You may not have realized the harmful intent behind these negative words, but historical context has a lot to do with it. For example, the word kinky refers to having knots or twists—but it was commonly used in the early 1800s with the derogatory term “nappy” to describe African hair as unusual, unconventional, and separate from the norm. See how context changes things?
With something as simple as words, we can choose to elevate, honor, and celebrate all hair types, just the way they are.
Check back for more curly-coily chats, we’re going all the way.
x Alifia, Curly-Coily Expert + K18 Educator
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